Overthinking: Your Invisible Enemy

by: Lyn Hazel D. Calawod, OTRP

Have you ever found yourself lost in a maze of thoughts, revisiting past mistakes or fretting over endless “what ifs”? Overthinking is an invisible enemy, often creeping into our lives unnoticed, yet its impact can be profound. It drains your mental energy, clouds your judgment, and can rob you of your zest for life.

The Cycle of Overthinking

Overthinking is more than just pondering deeply; it’s an exhausting mental loop where doubts and fears overshadow clarity and action. Merriam-Webster defines overthinking as “to put too much time into thinking about or analyzing something in a way that is more harmful than helpful.” This overanalysis, driven by an overly critical inner voice, can stunt your growth and delay success.

No one is immune to overthinking. It affects people of all ages, from children exposed to negative environments to adults juggling life’s pressures. A significant driver of this habit is the human brain’s negative bias—a survival mechanism from our evolutionary past. Designed to keep us alert to dangers, this bias often amplifies negative experiences over positive ones, making us dwell on worries and fears even when no real danger exists.

The Impact of Overthinking

Overthinking doesn’t just affect your thoughts; it seeps into every aspect of your life.

1. Burnout Without Physical Effort

Have you ever felt exhausted even without physical exertion? Overthinking floods your body with stress hormones like cortisol, leaving you mentally dull and physically drained. Restarting your “energy reset button” can feel nearly impossible.

2. Eroded Self-Esteem

Overthinking fosters self-doubt, making you question your abilities and second-guess your choices. This constant mental critique gradually diminishes your self-worth, robbing you of confidence and motivation. Type A personalities, with their high-achieving, competitive nature, are particularly prone to this trap.

3. Social Withdrawal

Overthinking often leads to avoiding social situations. Questions like “What if they don’t like me?” or “What should I say?” dominate interactions, causing stress and discomfort. This avoidance limits meaningful relationships and creates more solitude, fueling the cycle of rumination.

4. Health Consequences

The effects of overthinking extend to your physical health. Studies show that anxiety linked to overthinking increases cortisol levels, triggering the fight or flight response. This can lead to cardiovascular problems, with over 32% of heart failure patients experiencing some degree of anxiety.

Breaking Free from Overthinking

While overthinking can feel overwhelming, it’s not insurmountable. With intention and the right strategies, you can break free from its grip.

1. Cultivate Mindfulness

Mindfulness practices, such as meditation and deep breathing, help anchor your thoughts to the present moment, reducing the tendency to dwell on past regrets or future fears.

2. Challenge Negative Thoughts

Learn to recognize and reframe negative thought patterns. Replace self-doubt with affirmations and focus on what you can control.

3. Seek Support

Engaging with a mental health professional can provide tools like cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) to reshape your thought processes and develop healthier coping mechanisms.

4. Embrace Self-Care

Physical activities, hobbies, and social connections can redirect your energy and provide a productive outlet for stress. Regular exercise, for instance, not only boosts endorphins but also improves mental clarity.

The Power of Choice

Overthinking feeds off the energy and attention given to it. The trick is to change the thoughts and actions that are negative, and by doing that, you can change your story. Modern science and technology have given concrete proof of the adaptability of a brain, proving that intended habits can rewire it for resilience and happiness. 

It’s at the end of the day that your thoughts make or break your reality. Ask yourself this question: would you rather be drowned by overthinking or empowered by mindful living? It all begins with a simple but profound decision—to live intentionally and fully embrace life.

Choose growth. Choose joy. Live.

Lyn Hazel Calawod is an accomplished occupational therapist, neurorehabilitation expert, and elite sports performance coach with over a decade of experience. Founder of NeuroBalance and Precision Sports Therapy, she empowers individuals from children with disabilities to world-class athletes. As a key figure in Philippine gymnastics, she plays a pivotal role in Carlos Yulo’s success while advocating for holistic athlete development. An innovator, artist, and lifelong learner, Lyn continues to break boundaries in therapy and sports.

Hazel is a versatile talent, excelling as a commercial model, actress, and hip-hop dancer. She has a passion for travel and a deep love for sports, including MMA, rock climbing, and gymnastics.